Things have been really stressful lately with a move that has been forced on us. My husband got orders in February that we'll be making a cross country move right before the start of summer. I'm all for it for the most part. Just not the struggles of being financially unstable because we own a house and have tried just about all our options on what to do and none seem to be the best or would still put us off in bad financial stress. Yes, we've tried talking about selling, renting, even if a friend could take on the payments and claim the house. Nothing was feasible without costing us more money. We're getting screwed a bit and can't do much about it.
On top of the matters, my husband and I were led into a bad transaction with a water treatment equipment for our house. They say they don't have a lien on our house, but we can't sell the house at all. That would be considered a lien because only a lien could do that. So I've been left with the task of dealing with all of that which required me to be in and out of base legal offices and some other places to try and get help with it. They can't help us with trying to switch the loan to lift the lien, so now it led to filing complaints, which have all been done now. None of this is easy when you have a toddler either, so do believe I've been feeling drained with all of this.
And because I have our toddler, I can't finish the stuff needed to still be done since they don't want children during these classes we need to take. Daycare isn't optional since we can't get him into his doctor to fill out physical papers the daycare needs. And no, we don't really have family nearby that would watch him for however long it would take me alone to do it all, and especially at 7:30 AM for that fact. This is all now waiting on the hubby to come back from training exercises in a different state away from us.
We still have things to finish with decided on what we can do with the house as well. We don't know half of what they're asking for either or how to even obtain it. I guess we just still have a lot to do before moving in less than 2 months now. At least packing has started (even though it didn't need to be done) and the moving company will finish the rest for us. I just hope that company doesn't steal anything or break something in the process of moving us. I'd hate to have to file more complaints and what not. But stress is what I hate about all if this.
But on a brighter note, our toddler son will be turning 3 before the move and I'm hoping to have most my family down to see him. I do know a lot of them won't be able to make it and I wish we had time and money to go see them before this move, but we don't. It's not like we can just travel between two states and have one party between them or something. It's just easier for us to have it in our home and have everyone come to us. I know circumstances to some people on why they can't come, but some have no excuses and I'll know their true intentions with them showing up or not. As of now, I'm trying to take things day by day now and not over stressing myself.